Dear friend,
Have you ever fallen in love with someone, and started wondering how to tell if he/she feels the same way too? Or have you ever wondered how you can drop hints to let the other party know that you are romantically interested in him/her?
Imagine this scenario. You have been friends with this person for quite some time and you were wondering if it is time to cross the fine line between friendship and a committed relationship. However, the fear of rejection seemed to hold you back. Does she like me? Did she drop any hints along the way during our dates? Is my love reciprocated? These questions keep racing in your mind, making you troubled.
In this exclusive ebook by Love Clinic, we will reveal the tell tale signs of how to tell if the other party is interested in you. These ideas were formulated after years of intensive research, interviews and testing, so that you can be sure they really work! The ideas are applicable to both genders as we have written them from both the female and male perspective.
The first section of this ebook is written for women, and the second section for men. However, we would advise you to carefully study the ideas in both sections to understand both perspectives, so that you can also learn the REVERSE - how to drop hints to let someone know that you like him/her. Isn’t that cool?
Ready to learn more? Read on
How To Read A Man’s Mind
A very interested man
Most guys are straightforward. If he is very interested in you, he will try his best to contact you frequently. He will create opportunities to keep in contact with you, such as waiting for you on internet messenger and thinking of excuses to give you a call. He will also call you frequently and try to ask you out for a date.
During the date, he will make sure that everything goes on smoothly. He may book the tables in advance, plan the post dinner activities and arrive at the date in his best attire. He will offer to pay for the meal, so that he gets another opportunity to ask you out again.
During the “follow-up” period, he will do everything for you willingly to get into your good shoes. He will shower you with gifts (well, not all guys do that, but most of them do), drive to pick you up at your work place on a rainy day, travel deliberately to a particular place to get the food that you like or buy the bag that you want. He will be very nice to you, giving you frequent compliments and encouragement.
A moderately interested man
A moderately interested man is one who is interested in you, but is still considering whether you are the right person for him. Guys in this category will contact you once in a while, for example, give you a phone call once every week or only send forwarded SMSes to you. He will not deliberately wait for you on internet messenger, but will talk to you whenever he sees you online.
He will ask you out for dinner once in a while, with the frequency not exceeding thrice per month. He may give you a treat, but not at posh restaurants, sometimes even suggesting that both of you go Dutch.
He will do things for you as what he will do for other friends, not exceeding that threshold. For example, he is less likely to buy you gifts, for fear that you may get the wrong idea.
A man who is out for a fling
If he is just out for a fling, the tell tale signs are that he initiates body contact, such as touching of hands and shoulders, at a very early stage. He whispers softly into your ear when he talks to you, even though he is not emotionally close to you. He tries to tease you until you blush. But most importantly, you will know for sure that it is a fling if he does that to all the pretty girls he knows or if he is married or attached.
The place and circumstances where you met him may yield another hint. A man whom you met at a disco or pub, behaves flirtatiously and invites you to his home for a ‘drink’ is more likely to have thoughts of a one-night stand in mind than say, a guy you met at your favourite section of the local bookstore, or at a financial planning seminar which both of you attended.
A man who has no romantic interest in you at all!
This is an uncommon occurrence. Even if he has no romantic interest in you at all, the nice guys will still treat you normally as a friend while the bad guys will try their best to flirt with you. However, if you realize that he has not been answering your calls or replying your SMSes, never asked you out for a date even though you have known each other for many years and tries to matchmake you with his friend, then these are tell tale signs that he is simply not interested!
How To Read A Woman’s Mind
A very interested woman
If a lady is very interested in you, the more pro-active ones will take the initiative to ask you out. She may come up with an excuse of borrowing things from you so that she can meet up with you. The less pro-active ones will accept your dates and perhaps offer to pay for your second meal so as to ensure continuity.
When she is out with you, she will pay close attention to what you say. She will laugh at your jokes (even if they are not funny!) and will show signs of uneasiness when you talk about another woman.
It is always a plus point to know her friends if you want to date her. This is because she will talk about you to her friends and ask her friends of their opinion of you. She will also talk about your good points to them and mention your name frequently during her conversations with her friends.
A moderately interested woman
If she is moderately interested but is unsure if you are more suitable to be a friend or lover, she will treat you as she would with other friends. She will answer your calls and tell you about her life. She messages you occasionally when she is bored and may send you forwarded SMSes once in a while, such as on festive occasions.
She may accept your dates every now and then, only when she is very free. However, she will prefer to go on group outings with both of your common friends, instead of one-to-one outings for fear that you may get the wrong idea.
She may treat you as her “”emotional diaper”, confiding in you the problems she is facing and hoping that you will give her advice. She may also ask you to do things for her, such as lending her the latest copy of a
fashion magazine or checking up on something that interests her.
A woman who is out for financial gains
Some woman may try to get close to you deliberately so that she can get make some financial gains from you. She has more interest in your bank account than you as an individual. Tell tale signs will be that she accepts dates from you only if they are at posh restaurants (she will reject dinner dates at the food court or hawker centre). She will deliberately say that she is interested in something (usually something very expensive, such as diamond jewellery) so as to entice you to get it for her. She may even ask you to pay for things she buys for her friends!
A woman who has no romantic interest in you at all!
Finally, if a lady is not interested in you at all, what she does is very obvious. In the most extreme of cases, she will reject all your calls, turn down all your dates and may even block you on internet messenger!
A more subtle form of showing disinterest is to appear cold towards you. When you are talking to her, she will appear disinterested in the conversation, and may cast repeated glances at her watch impatiently, hoping that you’ll pick up the hint to get out of her sight. No matter which day you ask her out, she is always able to give you a ‘valid’ excuse why she’s not free.
Guess there is no real need to elaborate more on this!
Final thoughts
You have now finished reading this ebook and should have a general idea of the tell tale signs of whether someone is interested in you. We hope that with the new knowledge you have learnt, you will be able to ascertain confidently whether to express your feelings for him/her, or just give up and move on.
To benefit fully from these ideas, there’s no better way than to put them into practice!
Feel free to distribute this ebook to your friends, colleagues and anyone whom you think may find the content relevant and interesting
Me and my wife we. wish you the best of luck in your romantic pursuits
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